"We
fight all the time, and we're very competitive with each other. I think that's
why we're so close."
That's a
simple quote, but it wasn't a simple answer. Two people said it, but the voices
were almost simultaneous as if being sung by a duet the likes of Donny and
Marie Osmond.
These
were brothers, Ryan and Leon Fricker, completing the sentence about how they
treat each other. The two are golfers from Ivybridge, England. It's a town
located approximately 293 kilometers (182 miles) from London. You know the
place...a community about 14.5km (nine miles) east of Plymouth. Its early history is marked by its status as
an important crossing-point over the River Erme on the Exeter-to-Plymouth route.
Still not quite sure where it is?
Well, it is home to these brothers. These sibling
rivals. These similar-looking, tall gentlemen that eventually made a decision
that would not come easy. It was a decision to not only attend college, but
attend it "across the pond."
"Tiger Woods was my favorite golfer, and I knew
he went to Stanford," says Leon, two years younger than Ryan. "I grew up and
thought about it more and saw that some of the top amateurs at universities
were invited to play in PGA tournaments. From that point, it became more
realistic for me to come to America for school at a university."
That's easy for Leon to say, but not Ryan.
This time, there's no duet on the song for how
they came to their decision on coming to America...to Florida...to Bethune-Cookman
University.
"Alex Clapp, who is on the golf team at
Bethune-Cookman, called me one day and asked if I'd be interested in going to
college in America," says Ryan, notably more reserved and quiet than Leon. "It
was a year after I graduated that I thought 'I really would like to go to
college'. But Leon, he always knew he wanted to come to the States, since about
the age of 12 or 13, maybe."
The
first thing the two don't agree on.
The two
brothers knew it was far from home to come to the United States for school and
remain away from home months at a time, playing a sport that features different
obstacles than in the United Kingdom. However, they did not know they would
attend the same school.
"I
really didn't want to go to the same school as my brother in the beginning,"
states Leon. "I wanted to start on my own. But then, I suppose, it's hard
getting over here. My father had already done the work to get Ryan here. So, I
thought it best to just do the same thing again."
So, they
agreed on something. Taking the path worn before you is easier than molding
your own.
However,
being on your own and away from the brother you fight with a lot, and the
family you love so much back at home, does bring that nagging feeling of
emptiness. Even with school work, golf and the Florida weather to surround you
daily, there's still a bit of being "alone" that plays on you when you're not
with your biggest rival and best supporter for months at a time.
"I guess
there was some being homesick at first," states Ryan. "I was fine to start
because my dad was over here with me for about a week. When my dad drove off
and said he's going back to England, that's when the emptiness set in a bit, I
suppose. Now I'm here for four or five months until Christmas, and I knew it
was time to grow up."
But
remember, Ryan took a year off school at first. So, he's 20 years-old and on
his own in a foreign land, literally, and having some adult knowledge of the
world to rely on. He admits that if he were 17 or 18 years of age, things might
have been a bit different.
Now for
Leon and his trip to the States.
The
exact same airline. The exact same scenario with his father coming over and
assisting with his move. The exact same feeling of being dropped into a foreign
land. Just not the same empty feeling. This feeling was that of excitement and
adventures the likes of which any good Englishman would love to experience out
on his own for the first time.
"When I
was 18 years-old, I went to Tenerife [Canary Islands] for a month, but I didn't
speak to my parents once," expressed the admittedly independent Leon. "Then
again, it was probably easier for me when I did come to Bethune-Cookman because
I had Ryan and some of the other English boys and guys from Ireland on the team
over here as well. Being away from home though, it doesn't really bother me at
all."
So, the
two brothers disagreed on whether or not to attend college in the United
States. They disagreed on attending the same school. They disagreed on the
feeling of being so far from home. Now, they finally agree to the fact that
new-age technology has allowed them the chance to stay "closer" to home without
being home at all.
The
invention of Skype and Face Chat (iPhone) and other apps that work on computer
and mobile devices allows these two siblings to stay close with family and
friends back in the United Kingdom, while also being close with fellow
Bethune-Cookman golfers from the UK.
The two
have Alex Clapp from Somerset, England - home to a former women's golfer for
the Wildcats in the form of Becky Dowell (2005-08), as well as Matthew McKnight
from Lisburn, Northern Ireland. Then there's B-CU female golfer Jennifer Hide
from Norfolk, England.
"I talk
with my parents a lot on Skype," states Leon. "They might as well be in the
next room. I miss my friends more than anything because they're mostly at
university in England now. We can still chat and stuff, but I miss going out
with them more than anything else."
That
does come in handy when going home only happens twice a year. They know that
fact clearly. The two almost immediately said it in unison when asked how often
they go home.
However,
that's the end of this particular agreement.
Leon
admits his fondness for the States, and said he will probably stay. As for
Ryan, he's not as confidant that he'll stay after graduating from B-CU.
"I will
probably go home, I think," admitted Ryan. "The plan is to play on the [PGA] Tour,
but you never know about the future. It just depends on how things turn out."
Now time
to agree again, even if only for a quick moment.
Time to
talk about what keeps them rivals more than ever, and the biggest reason to
come to the United States...Golf. They love to play golf and love to play against
each other's score. They love the sibling rivalry in sports that drives them to
be better, and drives them to play harder. More importantly though, it drives
them to support each other more than ever.
But even
in golf, a foreign land is just that...Foreign.
There
are differences between playing an international sport with the same set of
rules that have stood the test of time and goes back more than a century. The
brothers agree that playing in America is far different than in the United
Kingdom.
In
unison, once again, they state the biggest difference.
"The
grass."
That's
the difference between England and the United States, at least to the Frickers.
The courses may all look nice and have a certain ambience that makes them
challenging, but the grass plays different "across the pond".
"It's
the grass," says Leon. "I think everything else is better. It's just playing on
the grass here is so much more different."
"The
grass is thick and tough and hard to predict," interjects Ryan. "In England,
it's just different. Before [Leon] got here, I told him that he was going to
struggle with it for at least a month."
To Leon,
a traveler of sorts, he figured the grass would not be as difficult as his
brother predicted. In essence, he disagreed.
"I
figured after playing in Spain, and they have different grass too, that I would
be alright with it," stated Leon. "[Ryan] told me to just get out here, and I
played - and it was not as easy as I thought at all."
Neither
of them, at first, knew what to expect at Bethune-Cookman University. They were
here to play golf on a terrain that was considerably different, and go to
class. They didn't expect a professional atmosphere that was provided by B-CU
head coach Loritz "Scooter" Clark and the entire athletics department.
Actually, the professionalism of the entire school.
"I
didn't expect everything to be so professional," admits Ryan. "The weight room
and training program in the mornings. The classrooms. Going to tournaments and
everything is planned out so well. The schedule with Coach [Clark]. Also, just
watching the other sports, I didn't expect the big crowds at games.
"I went
to a softball game, and I didn't expect it to be played in a proper
environment, but it was. It's nice. It's really good here."
That's
where the agreement ends.
When
asked about playing together, the two admit that playing golf together doesn't
bring them closer because they're so competitive. They don't want to agree on
it bringing them together as a team because they're always playing against each
other - even when they're playing for each other.
"I
wouldn't say that it brings us closer being here at Bethune-Cookman and playing
golf," says Leon. "I would say that it's a good thing because we're
competitive. It doesn't make us closer because we argue. However, it's not as
bad as it used to be."
That is
probably good for Coach Clark.
"We
fight and then an hour later we're fine," states Ryan. "We've always been very
competitive."
It's
that competitive nature that makes the Bethune-Cookman golf program an elite
program and a contender every year for the PGA National Minority Collegiate
Golf Championship. Now, thanks in part to a pair of fighting, agreeing to
disagree brothers, the program is escalating even further.
Whatever
they agree or disagree on, the two brothers from Ivybridge - our old sweet home
we spoke of earlier, Ryan and Leon Fricker are away from home. Yes, they may have
the internet and apps to chat with friends and family back in England. They may
follow in the footsteps of the greatest golfer in their lifetime - Tiger Woods.
They may even have two trips to England a year.
Whatever
the case may be, the two brothers have family in each other. They have "family"
with fellow United Kingdom natives Clapp, McKnight and Hide. They have the game
of golf and classes. All of that ties into one thing that brings "family"
together like none other - they have Bethune-Cookman University as a "home" in
their foreign land.